I have a brother who is in the midst of a dating detox. However, I believe that if someone remarkable came around he would conceded to dating her. Tonight I thought such a girl had come along. He disagreed. He claimed that he thought she was funny and a good time but that it wouldn't go anywhere. When I inquired as to why he said that it was because she was "angry".
I have noticed a little something about men. Just because a woman shows an emotion other than the standard happy go lucky does not make her an angry girl. The showing of emotion does not make one emotional, moody, unstable, needy, angry or anything else. It is NORMAL! How can your moody breed not get this? I have never seen such moodiness more than I see it in men! You men out there have more mood swings and anger issues and self esteem problems than any woman I have EVER met! As angry as this sounds, I am typing with such a big smile on my face. :)
I love you all and I am a fan of guys as friends and more but good grief! Get a clue! It is so exhausting hearing about how you just need someone light and fluffy who wants to be fit and have a good time. Great on the fit part but the bottom line is that you are afraid that if a woman shows you that she has a brain, thinks more than light and fluffy thoughts and expresses a mood, that she may expect something from you. That something could be commitment, it could be kindness, decency, empathy, time, energy and possibly effort. Heaven forbid. Why don't you just say you want a bimbo and be blunt? You poor unfortunate souls. We are not all angry. We are just tired of being expected to be nothing more than ditzes that you can sleep with whenever the mood suits you.
I am as light and fluffy as they come in daily life and I don't have "daddy issues". I love my dad. He treated me like I could do no wrong for many years and I always knew and still do know that he has a soft heart towards me. He is wrapped around my finger, the way it should be with dads and their girls. It makes me feel loved and helps me remember that it doesn't take sex or anything else to be deserving of such devotion and attention. I just wish for men's sake that they could see that we are not overall an angry species. We are just humans with brains and you should be glad when you find those of us who actually value ourselves and our bodies and don't let you behave like idiots and just stand their and take it. We love you, we have just lost patience with certain ideals that are unrealistic. Our anger is at a situation in society. How can you have respect for someone who plays stupid (or is sincerely stupid) and lets you behave stupidly and doesn't want better for you?
We love sex as much as you do. We hate drama as much as you do. The difference is that the things that turn us on are a bit different than what turns you on. If we weren't different it would be awfully boring! Thank heavens we are this different! As for those of you with mood issues and anger of your own - bring it on. All we ask is that you take accountability for your actions and don't act like victims and we will do the same. Let's all just play fair and drop the "angry girl" card.
I recently expressed the wanted to go to a Kelly Clarkson concert and was told "no way, she is angry and bitter". This was on the way home from a Staind front man concert. Oh, the irony. We heard nothing toe tapping or upbeat, just woe is me love songs and angsty Staind songs. I have never heard such a forlorn or scorned man in my life and yet I could enjoy myself with that so how could someone not see the lighter side of Kelly Clarkson. I mean at least she can express her angst in a toe tapping way that you want to move to? :) At least I wouldn't be afraid of the crowd at KC. I just think we all need to realize that we all have these emotions. They are good for us if we deal with them right. Just be happy and move along. Not everyone is angry and most women are not man haters.
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