There is someone in my life who has been suffering from a lack of discretion in their personal life. It isn't that I mind hearing about their encounters with people but there is a point where it goes into information overload.
What happened to the days of being discreet? When you slept with someone before being fully committed to each other and both parties just kept it quiet. When no one had to brag to their friends so as to cheapen what happened even more.
No matter what anyone thinks, the minute you have casual sex, on a woman's side of things - they feel cheaper than before. They think: I swore I wasn't going to do this. Or they think they are weak or just plain slutty. Woman may deny that this is how they feel but their behavior doesn't lie. We put on a brave face and we LIE.
I like sex. I'm one of it's biggest fans! But I know that what you do in the bedroom (or wherever) and the details of things relating to it need to stay locked in the vault of your mind. People will talk about you and it won't be in a favorable way. And men, who are you kidding? When you brag about being with a girl most of us think you are lying. You guys are great but you all think you are better in bed than you think and you think that people believe the stories you tell. You look ridiculous! And yet, we still want to date you. Hmmmmm. It is perplexing.
Bottom line: If you can't keep your pants zipped perhaps you could zip your mouth.
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