Months ago I met up with a guy I met online. He lived just a few blocks from my house and I kept it very platonic despite his boasting about his sex life and many love affairs (which I had to hear all about on the first meeting). Here and there this guy texts me and I am always kind as it is a small world and I have no reason to be mean.
After a long while of not hearing from this guy at all I got a text last week at 11:30 at night. I was staying at a family members home and we had a houseful of people. We were having a great time. This guy invited himself over and my response was that it was not my home so I couldn't possibly make the invitation. Then he asked me to leave the party and go to where he and his buddy were drinking.
This was so funny to me on so many levels. First off, I am the mother of four. I am all about being a mom. No, I am not dead, my sex drive is revved up. :) But, who calls the single mother of four for a booty call in the middle of the night? I am not the mom that has someone she can leave her kids with while she goes around having one night stands. He knew this was not my style and he knew he was going to end up rejected. When I told my family member who this guy was hanging out with that night I was told to run far away. There are some people that you just don't want to become associated with.
This may make me sound like a prude or rude person. In fact I am not. I think I am a great catch for someone at some point. I am not actively searching for anyone right now because I don't want anyone. I don't want a relationship. I guess that I can be honest and say that I just want to do my own thing, I want to focus on having some good times, keeping my kids close and taking a step back from relationship drama.
What truly amazes me and makes me chuckle is that if I did sleep with this guy I would probably never hear from him again because the men I seem to attract want a "newer and better" something all the time. But, because I won't even entertain the thought of him, he keeps coming back. Kills me. It just makes no sense.
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