Yawn!

I suppose that being single can't be all fun and games but it should be a bit more interesting than this!  I will say that I have been uber productive while this everlasting dry spell has been going on.  So much to do, so little time. 

For a couple of months (three tops), I was texting back and forth with someone I had done some work with.  We have not met face to face and I was completely honest that for several months, that would be how my life works.   So, we just kept texting.  He let it be known that he had fallen hard and I couldn't return the sentiment and feel okay inside.  I like him, but without meeting and taking things slow, I can't say I have fallen for anyone.  On top of which, he was jealous even over texting (I am not a fan of jealousy) and he was very negative toward my religion.  I don't care if someone doesn't believe as I do but be kind and respectful.  I don't care how others believe if it isn't hurting me!

All of a sudden, no word from this "friend".  I don't understand people.  If someone falls "so hard" for you, then where are they?  Shouldn't they still be there for you or with you in whatever way possible.  No, I didn't expect him to wait around forever but he gave me the classic line that we would always be friends.  And I am just a slow learner because I believed him!  Awesome!  I know that not everyone stays in your life forever, or even for long but people need to watch what they say.  Say what you mean, mean what you say!  Don't say you have fallen if you are ready to bail any second. 

On a lighter note, there is someone in my life who has a relationship that is constantly like a shampoo bottle instructions:  "shampoo, rinse, repeat"!  Their label would read "get together, fight, make up, repeat".  In this particular case there are children involved so I am perplexed.  I suppose to each his own but that trap of breaking up and getting back together again is not something I have enjoyed in previous relationships nor do I want to repeat it.