I am a total NINNY! I make no bones about it. Not a fan of rated R movies, crude humor, most stand up comedy (because of crude humor), rap music with explicit lyrics, etc. You get the idea. I tell this to guys I chat with up front and without fail they all promise to treat me like a lady. They all explain that I am a lady and that it is a wonderful thing and they will treat me accordingly. Yeah, right. When pigs fly.
I guess it is a matter of judgement but I am finding that few guys have good judgement. The guy I have been talking to non-stop for days now zinged me with an Eddie Murphy reference yesterday. Naturally the whole conversation got started with hot tubs. Now, I know that all men love hot tubs. This is not a secret. But women, don't we all know why they like them? Yep, because they think that the hot tub will lead to something physical for them. I am a fan of hot tubs when alone in the hot tub with the ability to enjoy it with no pressure. Yes, there is a reason I am single.
There is a point to my ranting. Men, drop the dirty innuendos. Drop the crude stuff and don't make dirty references. What you don't get is that you might be funny for one moment but in the long run it makes us feel cheap, not special. Try to pretend that you don't have your minds in the gutter all the time.
I'm sure some of you think about something other than sex. I don't. I think about sex all the time, it is a great thing and I want more of it. But, I don't want it with someone who it disgusting in his own mind. So, clean up your brain and then let's get busy. :)